Dr. Perri Klass writes eloquently about boys
and girls and sex, and the importance of values, manners and gender
equality. As a child and youth psychiatrist I find much of what she
recounts not only reasonable but reasoned. There is however a developmental
neurobiological reality that can help us put these sex and youth issues into a
wider perspective. Simply put, neurodevelopment prior to puberty has as
its major goal the survival of the individual to the time of puberty so that
species reproduction can take place. As a result, the adolescent brain
normatively develops its drive for sex and the associated dopamine driven
nigro-striatal-cortical systems associated with craving (yes – the same system
that allows for addictions to begin). So there we have the phylogeny of
the species. So what now?
Every
society develops social structures that serve to channel and direct sexual
activities in youth. And, because the brains of young people can be
modified by the environment that they are in, by and large these social
structures do modulate these behaviors, although sub-group and sub-cultural
frameworks may not always conform to wider social norms and expectations.
So to be
simple about it – young people will generally channel their sexual expressions
within social expectations created by their environments. Environment can
be helpful or un-helpful in this regard. However, while we may not be
able to control the relentless process of pre-programmed neurodevelopment, we
can provide behaviorally optimizing and socially enhancing environments for
young people. These begin within the family and include all aspects of
values and behavioral expectations. They extend outside the family and
are taken up by our institutions and collective organizations. They
should extend to the media and the advertising industry. The most
interesting question for me is why they do not seem to.
~ Dr. Stan
Kutcher